How do I boost my self esteem?
>OP walks in store to buy his Ben & Jerry's at the end of his day
>OP is waiting in line with a customer in front of him and three other customers behind him
>Notices that the cashier is the same cute girl that sort of complimented opies physique a while back when opie used to work in the same shopping center.
>Testosterone kicks in and OP decides to make a move
>Asks how her day is going.. she was friendly and small talk starts as she's putting together my purchase.
>OP goes in raw and decides to say "Do you have boyfriend?" She sort of smiles and says no.
>I follow up with "I'm usually not this forward but you should put your number in my phone.. would be cool if we could hang out some time"
>As I'm looking down pulling out my phone I get a response of "I'm kind of at work right now.. and I don't just go out with random customers"
>OP is embarrassed af and can see the customers behind him grinning in his peripheral.
>I smile and acted like it was nothing. Then I say "That's understandable I'm sure you are used to guys asking you out a lot" Even though my ego has been completely shattered at this point.
>She asked for $4.39 and I count out the cash.. hand it to her and say "Here's $5"
>She responds and says.. "This is $6..."
>OP does a 180 and walks out like an awkward forever alone.
>I came home to look in the mirror thinking I could boost up my self esteem again by flexing and doing some power posing.
>After 15 minutes.. I keep looking in the mirror and catch something different. Holy shit.. my hair receding bros. This bish prly thought I was somebody's dad. DF is happening to my life.
>Now I'm wondering if I really should really be carb cycling with ben n jerry's.. considering that I don't even have lower abs right now. But fck it. I got ben n jerry's brahs.
Is it time to dig myself in a nice hole to lay down and rot in?
How do I boost my self esteem?
How do I boost my self esteem?
What Girls Said 7
You should go back one day when it's not very busy or catch her another time. You should tell her that you apologize about that but you would love to take her to dinner and get to know her if she is willing. Tell her that you will pick her up at x time or she can meet you, whichever she is more comfortable with. Flatter her, but don't be pushy about it.
Tell her that she made you feel nervous and you apologize for walking off like that but that you would love to make it up to her. :) We love being flattered. Being that she was working, it probably wasn't appropriate to try giving her your number right then. She couldn't have possibly said yes anyway because she probably would've gotten chewed out by her boss for not attending to other customers who were waiting.
It's okay to feel embarrassed. But if you like her, give it a shot. Chase her, but not in a creepy way. Seriously though, give it about a week or two and go back. Write your name and number on paper and be ready to give it to her. And then do this: Say, "I apologize for leaving so quickly last time, but you are just so beautiful. I would love to take you to dinner one day and get to know you if you're up for it. I know you're busy, but take this *hand her folded piece of paper with your name and number* and think about it." Then smile, take your items and walk out like a boss. You have to remain confident though even if she turns you down. But if you take my advice, you won't put her completely on the spot and she will take it into consideration. She will have time to think about it, and hopefully she will give you a call/text.
It's so easy to lose confidence when we are shot down, but just as guys admire a woman with confidence, we admire a man with confidence too. We don't like arrogance or one who is conceited, but it's nice to see a guy who is well-mannered, respectful and takes control of the situation in a professional manner. You might be nervous doing this, but if you like her, it's worth a shot. The worst than can happen is she says no and then that's okay too. Life goes on. But the biggest chance you can take is by not taking a chance at all. I live by that quote because it's so true.
I'm nearly out of characters for this post, but there's a little more that I will say in a second post.0
Poor baby. Here, momma Momo is gonna give yews a BIG HUGGIE!
Get yourself together, boiii.
My son cries over his shots less. You are FEARLESS BANANA! Not crybaby banana!
Okay, now that the tough love is over...
Dude, every now and then, you're gonna lose an oppertunity. And I think you even said something
in your guide that you aren't always gonna win.
What I usually do is pamper myself or do another project.
Remember, she's only one girl out of 7 million people, bruh. Don't give her the power to make your day bad.
Working out helps me with mine.😆1
Um... ask out another girl? lol, rejection is part of life lol. super nice muscles though1
so sry OP she was just intimidated by the jacked athletic bod man...1
What Guys Said 13
OP after he gets turned down and binge eats his feelings away.1
Ouch that's rough I'm surprised though I didn't figure you for the low self esteem guy. With that being said, stop sulking and buck up, your the fearless/ripped banana not the eat ice cream in the corner and sulk banana. Rejection and failure are part of life when it happens you just have to pick yourself up and get on with your life.
Must be having a breakthrough, like a chrysalis into a butterfly or whatever the fuck. OP is going into a new place, OP is still a faggot, but OP is chill.
Chico is calling mang0
My cheat day was yesterday bro and I had ice cream lol
Hit up one of your sloots and get banging. Your hair ain't bad. Once it starts to thin out I'd say shave it off. Ladies go crazy for bald men haha0
Lmao gay fuk, u should be glad you aren't on misc and with these nerdy bulkied fuks on here or you'd be red so bad0
Dude stay away from that. Thatll lead you right into depression.1
Get sum gainz n stop cryin bruh.0
Pretend you have a dick as big as mine, Smile :)0
Sluts, lots and lots of sluts.0
receding hair make you look older so hit on older hot chiks and0
You're the most helpful guy on here.
I'm not a fat awkward weirdo who says things like 'hey pretty lady my name is Jafar ehehe' but I ain't smooth as butter either.
The stuff you post on here about not giving a fuck and exercising, I don't lift but I do other things, have really improved my chances with the girls. Thankfully I'm only 18 and not 27 like these other guys lol
So yea just wanted to point that this nigga knows what he's talking about guys2