Every person around me is into weed. I feel like I will not fit in or will be considered as someone conservative if I won't smoke weed. Even my crush smokes weed, and I feel like stoners only like to be with people like them. I am not into all this stuff. In fact, I have always believed in living a clean life but I just feel like all these other girls who are into smoking stuff is considered much cooler than me. I am confused about this issue.
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Don't do it just to seem cool. I smoke, but I never started doing it just to be cool. I enjoy the feeling. My best friend doesn't smoke and I don't care. It's just not his thing and that's cool. The reason I rarely hang around people who aren't "stoners" is because of people, like yourself, who feel like they need to do it just because they want to be cool. I feel like they are judgmental of me. There's a girl in my group of friends who, while she says she's not judgmental, is definitely judging us all for smoking. She makes comments and then gets upset (tries not to show it though) when we hang out to smoke and she's not invited. We make plans for other things, but don't get mad if we want to smoke, but don't want to make you uncomfortable. Most of my friend group consists of stoners. I have no problem if you don't smoke, but don't think differently of me just cause I do.
Half of the time non-stoners get upset because they feel like their friends are changing because they smoke or they feel like in order to fit in, they have to smoke. The truth is, it's mostly in your head. Some people are like that, but most aren't. We don't care if you aren't into it. Like I said, my best friend doesn't smoke. He doesn't judge me for doing it though. He has a lot of stoner friends as well. He'll even go with me while I take a few hits sometimes.
There are a lot of dumb things that people do, but I don't really thinking weed is one of them. Yes, some people are definitely dumbasses when it comes to weed, but not all of us are like that. I'm not ruining my life just because I smoke. I'm a smart girl. I'm certainly smart enough to know that doing weed to be cool isn't a good idea and that I don't need to smoke just to help me get a guy.0
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