I feel this happens to me a lot. I try not to be hurtful toward most people, but there are just some others who need the "brutal" honesty. I'm not a mean spirited person in a way but when I try to be realistic others think I'm being pessimistic or negative. Has this ever happened to you and how do you deal with it?
PS I may not like Kanye West but this is kind of how i feel.
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It's your tone of voice and body language, not just the words.
**With that said- Some people can't take complete honesty.**
I prefer someone who's blunt/forward.
If I do or say something that you feel you need to tell me about, I don't take it personally.
I like criticism. If it's something I can't change [i. e. you are too tall] , I just laugh. So what? Get used to it, I'm not shrinking anytime soon. ;)0