So my boyfriend is black African and he sometimes talks to me and (supposedly jokes) and says "Oh is it because i'm black?" He sees it as joking but I see it as self hate. Due to this way of thinking being passed down through generations through ancestors. What do you think?
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For some self-assured people it's 100% a joke, for some, yes it's something deeper that maybe they don't even recognize. My boyfriend is black and he'll joke about that occasionally but I know for sure for sure he doesn't mean it at all and he has literally no issue with who he is at all. If it makes you uncomfortable and it's not funny to you, just tell him you don't like those jokes.0