I've been with this boy for almost 5 years and we have a complicated relationship but we both love each other very much. It's a known fact among my friends I suffer from extreme depression and I've attempting suicide about 4 times. Well about a year ago I started talking to the guy I'm with friends and I thought we where cool. They all said they where my friends but after awhile some just started being mean because sometimes I'd have problems with my boyfriend. Well about 4 months ago one of the friends got n2 an argument with my best friend about something and he decided to bring me n2 it on Facebook and tell everyone how I've tried killing myself and saying I'm trying to over a boy who doesn't even love me (my bf) and everyone of my friends all seemed to not defend me about it. Only the friend of mine he was angry at, even one of the friends who u thought was really close to me didn't and told me it wasn't a big deal to ignore it. And recently I posted about me being a year of cutting free and a lot of the so called friends I had criticized me for saying that and me mentioning that my brother is finally going to prison for molesting me when I was younger. A lot of them keep referring to me as an insignificant girl and it's so annoying because I thought these people where my friends and even if they aren't the ones saying things y am I not being defended or y do they keep laughing at what people say about me? And then when I cut because of this I get yelled at and called insane... I don't understand and I just want them to like me
Why do his friends feel the need to call me names, make fun of me being suicidal and other horrible things?
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Wow... why are kids so immature. Step 1; Tell them how you feel Step 2: curse them and call them out ( and point out times you were angry at them and their mistakes which you could have could have rubbed this in their face, BUT honey, DON'T ACTUALLY RUB IT IN THEIR FACE, just tell them how they're not perfect and show them you were there for them and they're not empathic towards you as a friend back...) Step 3: Block them off, cut them off and out of your life. Never look back, forget them and move on. Pick yourslf up, your tiara is falling. Good luck, hope this helped x0
No offense but you sound like a damn mess. :/ To make matters worse, instead of dealing with your serious, deep issues in private, you put them on display for public consumption. There is no reason at all you need to announce to Facebook that you’ve stopped slicing your skin open out of frustration for over a year. That makes you sound extremely unstable and almost as if you’re addicted to making yourself bleed. The truth is that females like you tend to become leech-like over time. You may not intend to, but the constant revolving door of drama gets old and very annoying. You can’t trust just anyone with that info; there are some people who WILL use it as ammunition as you have seen. Your friends sound like they’re over you constantly being depressed and bringing a ton of self-drama to the table of their friendship.0
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