So I'm a fairly quiet person. I can hold a conversation but in a group of people, i don't usually talk over others or anything like that.
I was was out to dinner with my boyfriend and group of people. During the middle of a conversation, this one guy asks me why I'm so quiet. It was such an awkward moment. Everyone stopped talking and I felt like he put me on the spot.
so I responded with asking him why he talks so much. I wasn't rude or anything, I just asked him straight forward.
Later that night, my boyfriend pulls me aside and tells me that I was being bitchy when I asked the guy why he was so talkative.
I feel like this is a double standard. My boyfriend doesn't call him out on asking me a question about my personality but calls me bitchy for doing the same exact thing.
So my question is, was I being a bitch by asking him essentially the same thing he asked me?
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No you're not a bitch. I'm also a really quiet person. Fuck anybody who calls you out on it.1