I'm 18. I have 0 social life, don't even have a job yet (long story behind that one..)
Anyway, My whole family is part of a religion that's pretty regulated, not by others, but by themselves, something that's been instilled in them over many years. My mom would love nothing more than for me to sit around all day reading the bible and such.. I have 0 friends, the only potential friends are people from the congregation I go to and they're all douchebags. I literally haven't been out of the house 4 times the past couple weeks (counting out the half a mile walk to take out the trash lol) What do I do? anyone got advice?
I'm 90% sure most of you will say "Get a job." Anyone got ideas of where I can get a job? It's sad that I have to turn to you guys for that, but my dad doesn't live with us anymore and my mom works most weekdays, she doesn't necessarily want me to get a job.. I don't have a car either, so I can't just drive to work every day. I almost got a job at a place across the street but the place was filled with some pretty weird hoes, my mom shut that one down real quick..
It's actually pretty crazy, I went on omegle (if y'all know what that is) the other day and spent hours just talking to strangers, it was a lot of fun. It seems strange to enjoy such simple things so much.
So if you got this far, thank you!! got any advice for me?
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Maybe you can get a loan from a family member to buy a second hand car? Anyway, I know it's tough and demotivating nowadays to find a job, but that doesn't mean you should give up. If you're not going to college, what else are you going to do with your life? You can't depend on your mom forever, so get it over with while you're still young.
I don't know which country you're from, but some job agencies in my country (Belgium) offer courses for reasonable prices (rewarded with a degree). Check if you have similar opportunities. Hell, nowadays you can get some degrees from stydying at home!
And if you're bored, try to join some group activities like including sports (soccer, basketball, self-defense, etc), hobby-classes or charities.0