Everyday my older cousin doesn't do his work and leaves a big mess for me to clean up and everyday I get bitched out because he didn't do his work. Everyday I clean out my cat's litter box and pick up after my dog then I go and clean the kitchen and vacuum the floors. then apparently for some reason I'm expected to go clean his cat's litter box and pick up after his dog and by the time I'm done doing this he has trash the kitchen so I have to re clean it. then when I'm done he has made some huge mess in the leaving room and leaves to hangout with his friends. then my grandma walks out and blames me for the house being a mess and screaming like a banshee at me. so my question is is it wrong for me to be pissed off about this?
Do I have a right to be pissed off about this?
What Guys Said 10
no sounds like a legit reason to be pissed0
Yup you have every right to be pissed.0
You have a right to be pissed off about anything as an American, This is just something that it makes sense to get pissed off about0
Umm, You are entitled to your emotion.0
Ya, but the question should be: What are you going to do about it?0
you have a total right to be pissed off.0
Stop helping your cousin but teach him to be independent, tell your granny it was not your fault.0
What Girls Said 5
Growing up I never saw my brother get told off for anything. He'd steal my money and my parents would be like "hide it better". It's in a damn safe in my underwear draw! How about tell him off!
That's just beyond rude of your cousin but that's one thing, he's just a douche, it annoys me your grandma automatically assumes it's your fault, or even yells at you. You should just start doing nothing and say "well this is apparently what I do anyway" and show her the mess that piles up.0
Yes! You have the right to be mad. You need to explain to her that you do all your cleaning and he does none of his PLUS he messes up everything after you just cleaned it. If she doesn't believe you set up a camera!!! If she screams at you for his crap again scream back. She has no foundation whatsoever to get angry with you when she wasn't even there.
Please don't tell me your cousin his like her favorite grandchild so she won't believe you. Please I hope not.1
Why don't you refuse to clean up after him?0
yes you do0