Most Helpful Guy
IT is just bad luck really. Besides you don't want to be in a one-sided relationship. I think men take a little bit more time to mature and start to confront their issues and learn to express them in a healthy fashion. Judging by you age, you still have a lot of time to meet some of these men who would care for you and enjoy your love as any good partner should. I am not trying to sound like an old wise guy (lol) because clearly I am not much older than you, but sadly it is the truth of life.
Just to be fair, the problem might be with you; key word MIGHT. Maybe the way you express your love to them scares them away? Or perhaps you don't express it enough? Or it could be something else, in any case, you are the only person who will be able to answer this accurately. Just remember to always remain self-aware, meanwhile try not to be so harsh on yourself. You will get the love you deserve someday; you better believe that.
Best wishes. : )1
Most Helpful Girl
I am so sorry you are struggling with this too! I struggle with this myself and it's been the biggest thing that has haunted me with relationships.
From my experiences and talking with people, what I have learned is that people are not always going to stay in your life forever. And that that is okay. It might seem painful now and hurt and be very confusing. But often there is a reason they were removed from your life.
I think about ex bf's sometimes and why things didn't work out. Most of the time it has been for the better. They weren't right for me, and it was a good thing they are no longer in my life. I have learned so much.
I feel for many people it's the same thing. We get with someone and they just don't mesh with us, even if we really want them to. So eventually the relationship has to break apart.