- Yes36% (20)43% (23)40% (43)Vote
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- It is what it is.35% (19)40% (21)37% (40)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. And I've never been more emotionally thrashed for such a long period of time in my life. It's over now, and has been over for a month or two. The world is piecing back together and sanity has been restored.
Yet in spite of experiencing such trauma, one must forgive. One must forgive or forever wear a victim's facade. Without forgiveness, you cannot heal the wound that will negatively alter the face of your future.
No matter how terrible the person or how severe his or her wrong doing is, forgiveness is the only justice. When you forgive, you are no longer an ailing victim. You become transcendent.1
Most Helpful Girl
You have to. For your own sanity and happiness, you need to let these things go eventually1