Most Helpful Guy
Two times for me. After the second try I just quit talking to her outright unless she initiates. She'll have to make plans to meet after.2
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on the dude.0
Two times for me. After the second try I just quit talking to her outright unless she initiates. She'll have to make plans to meet after.
It depends on the dude.
The first time you hear an excuse, you think it's an excuse you maybe it isn't so you don't give up. When you ask her a second time and you hear an excuse, you are fairly certain that it is an excuse. I hate it when girls lie and make up excuses instead of just telling you that they aren't interested. So, after the second excuse, I ask them, "If I ask you a third time, will you say 'yes' or will you make up another excuse?"
I asked my crush to hang out twice before she finally agreed.
1st ask: asked her if she could give me a ride to work holiday party, she said she felt like shit and she was sorry but she didn't feel like going
2nd ask: asked her just to hangout. She agreed, but 30 mins before we were going to she said she remembered she had to babysit (which was probably valid).
3rd ask: she said yes and we hungout.
And she's really the only girl I've asked to hang out.
I ask once. I accept the excuse.
I ask for the second time. I don't accept the excuse.
There's no third time.
Having an excuse alone? 1 or 2 times. If she has an excuse but comes back with a counter offer, then a couple more tries.
Thing is, it is dangerous for girls to play these kind of games because all you are doing is filtering out high quality guys who have other options and confident enough to not take your bullshit.
Hmmm she gets Two strikes
Twice. I run a restaurant, so I know how busy people in my business can be. But if you really want to see someone, she can make it happen or make time for us. If she doesn't then I need to move on
2nd or 3rd attempt. Don't take long fore to get the message.
Three times. Then I tell her to call me if things change and keep moving.
2 or 3 times.
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