I'm mad because of this question I answered. I wrote a take about it haha
Here's the mytake
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I am a bit annoyed right now because I just read a reply on a MyTake where this guy was saying how guys have to lie about things because they are not monogamous whereas women are and blah blah blah.
I so hate disloyalty. I try to be as loyal as possible when I'm in a relationship and from what I can tell, my boyfriend appears to be loyal too. I was cheated on by my ex and I hated that shit. Fine if he liked someone else but I feel he should've broke up with me before getting with them. Breaking up feels bad enough, why cause someone extra emotional damage?
I know my current boyfriend doesn't seem the type to be disloyal and yet I am continuously having anxiety and getting negative automatic thoughts about it.
By reading the person's reply, it made me feel even worse about this, plus angry since I know guys CAN be loyal: My Dad has been with my mum since he was my age and not cheated, I myself have not cheated on anyone and I know there are tons of people, both male and female that are loyal to their partners and do not cheat. All that persons comment did was wind me up2