So I've been seen as somewhat abrasive to guys because of my "crazy" actions and I just want to know if that is really unattractive.
Most Helpful Guy
Some of the craziest girls I dated (ex: exhibiting bipolar tendencies) were also very shy.
The ones that seem more crazy on the outside are are less shy often aren't quite as crazy in a relationship from my limited experience.
That said, 'shy' is a more appealing quality to me that attracts me than a girl who comes off as abrasive, if only because the latter is rather intimidating while shy girls are like a mystery puzzle to me that I want to unlock.0
Most Helpful Girl
Different strokes for different folks...0