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I hurt a girl I was with a couple years ago. I was immature and I wasn't sure how I felt for her I got into a cycle.
Get with her
Question my feelings
Break up with her
This happened over and over and over again for the better part of a month. She had BPD and though it wasn't bad then, what I did made it worse. Both my friends and her friends could tell that she was breaking. There was just something off about her.. she gradually became more unstable and we got the feeling that she was becoming delusional about certain things like how she was gonna move in with my girlfriend and I and have loud sex with me every night. Mind you this was long after the whole cycle thing. I stayed friends with her even though I didn't have feelings for her because I thought that maybe through friendship I could make it up to her and help her get out of this funk she was in because she refused to get help. But after discussing it with a mutual friend of hers, I decided to tell her to tell her mom that she needs help. She did. Her mom told her to stop talking to me. She did.
Now I hope that she can get the help she needs and eventually get over me. I caused that girl so much pain, pain that eventually led to this. If I would take anything back it would be to go back two years and just stay friends with her. I'm now in the process of living it down. Hopefully her cutting me off will help me do that and forgive myself for the emotional roller coaster I put this girl through.1