Do you ever try to understand why people are mean?
Do you go the extra step to help them learn to be nice?
Or do you just get angry, judge them and feel self righteous?
I know that it is hard to even think of changing someone... but do you at least try to understand them?
Most Helpful Guy
I try to understand everyone, but that doesn't mean I won't be mean to them in return. Being mean to people tells you things about them that they wouldn't tell you themselves... Someone doesn't need to be mad to be mean to someone. I don't try to change people. People choose to ask for help, and they choose to make changes on their own. Sometimes advice can influence them, but ultimately they are the one that chooses the path they walk in life.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'll try to understand a little bit, but if they keep being that way I'm going to let it go and not try to help them.0