Boys and girls, have you ever thought how you'd propose to your partner one day? I have always imagined it as an intimate moment. I would cook her favourite meal and afterwards during the post meal cuddle I would simply ask her "Will you marry me?". Nothing too fancy but from the heart.
If you don't want to propose, how would you like to be proposed?
If you don't want to marry, why are you against marriage? I know you'll tell us anyway lol
Most Helpful Girl
If I was to do that specifically with my current partner, then I'd make it more casual. He doesn't like huge displays of affection and, honestly, that'd make me uncomfortable too. He'd honestly be happy with me just being like 'hey, dude, wanna get married?' and then just elope or something. So yeah, just something casual and he wouldn't want a ring so I'd probably get him an engraved pocket watch or something similar, that's something he'd enjoy.
I think that, if I was to be proposed to, I'd want it done kinda simple too in that I want it to just be us, no big proposals in front of crowds or in a restaurant or out and about, just us on our own in our home because I want to know 100% that I'm saying yes because I love them and want to marry them, not because I'm feeling pressured to by how many people are watching. Besides, having so many eyes on me would fuck with my anxiety :P I think I'd want a little more romance than 'wanna get married?' but yeah, again, no huge speeches.1
Most Helpful Guy
I'm against proposing because I find the whole idea of it way too cheesy and unnatural. I also have some issues with it because there's this gender-thing involved... many people believe that it's a man's "job" to propose. However, I refuse to take the initiative just because I was born with a penis.
Instead, my girlfriend and me simply discussed marriage over the span of about 2 years. During these numerous discussions, it just sort of became an agreement that we will get married some time in the near future. None of us ever clearly asked "Will you marry me?" but because we both know we want to stay together for the rest of our lives and have children, we simply decided that marrying would be a good decision.1