Like... Why do people think that's something that would work? I have no idea who you are, why would I just waltz into your apartment before meeting you elsewhere first? 😂
This isn't the first time it's happened, but I'm still super surprised guys think this would even remotely work.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, you have to give it to the guy. He's got a ton of confidence and gets straight to the point.
"I'm still super surprised guys think this would even remotely work."
I'm guessing with him it probably did work at least once or twice before.
I had a male friend who was quite a looker and charming. He could go into a night club and just start dancing with a girl, grab her, and kiss her within a minute or two. It almost seemed kind of "rapey", but he could pull it off. Soon after I'd catch the two of them banging in the men's bathroom.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yupp, happens to me plenty online. I don't know how people think it's okay either. Like I definitely don't feel safe unless I know the person a little. I think some people are just too eager to jump the gun. Some people though may think if they get you in their house, that they have more control over the situation and will be able to get you to do whatever they want.
So I would say be careful. Any person who truly cares is not going to push for something you are not uncomfortable with. If they are pushing, there is usually a reason. And it's usually better to just let them go.