Most Helpful Guy
Through time and how they react when I'm hurting or having issues1
Most Helpful Girl
It takes time for people to earn your trust. As time goes by you get to know a person's character. I never give my trust freely. I look to how they be responded to past situations in their life and get to know their mindset.
If a person betrays someone's trust after they have fallen out with them , or had a disagreement /argument , then I'd distance myself from them. Someone who is genuinely loyal will extend their loyalty to people... even though they are no longer part of their life.
I'm a very loyal person. So if someone confides in me then I'll keep it as confidential , even if that person beomes my enemy. It would be going against my own conscience and values if I betrayed someone. The person I always remain loyal to... is myself. I'll never allow a person's behaviour towards me , cause me to go against my own values, morals or conscience.
So listen and watch to way up their character. Sometimes it can take time to determine their loyalty to people. Then other times you see through them right away.
It's easy to be loyal when you are things are going well between two people but the test of their tire loyality will be seen when things aren't going so well.1