Do you ever feel sorry for your exes because you're a terrible partner?

I know I'm a handful and a half. How that woman ever put up with me is beyond my comprehension.

  • Yes, I was a handful
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  • No, I was an excellent partner
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  • Mandatory pointless third option that everyone chooses like "Both" or some shit because wishywashy no backbone generational lack of grit
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I have low self esteem and I thought I should not date or marry anyone. I thought I would make their life miserable and I was going to end up divorced. After being married for a while now. I realize that every relationship has problems. I know that I put up with his bs and he puts up with mine. But what matters most is that we both are learning to love better.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes, I always want to give a girl more of me, but I was one of those guys that was always too busy. After school, work, gym, rehearsals, studying for tests like the MPRE, bar, etc. I would only have time for my girl late at night or on the weekends, when she's competing with my bros/family for time. I could see my ex-gfs' enthusiasm fade as the relationships went on, being attracted to the drive at first yet longing for togetherness as it continued. Such an observation kept braking my heart. Now I stay single, for women's sake. . . I just graduated though, so we'll see how things change.

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What Girls Said 13

  • I dont exactly have an ex bc we never officially broke up and we might be getting together, but yeah i was cold and distant and difficult to understand. Not intentionally i just think where you are apparently supposed to feel, and i ended up doing some dumb shit. I think ill be better the next time with him, or someone else, but hopefully i get another chance with him. We'll see.

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  • I've been a pretty horrible partner, but I think that was mostly because I didn't even want to be with the guy in the first place, but he had been trying to get me to go out with him for an entire month. I think it's easier to be a good partner to someone you love and you're sure you wanna be with.

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  • I always feel bad, and never blame them for cheating because I'm a complete disaster!

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  • No, I was a good partner I tried being the best girlfriend ever to him. But ended up getting cheated on and betrayed, for no good reason.

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  • Personally no, I made a few small mistakes but overall I tried to be the best girlfriend I could to my exes, in return I got lying and attempted manipulation

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  • I only feel bad for one of my exes. I feel like I was being a selfish bitch.

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  • Fuck no! They should just be thankful they got the opportunity to go out with me... :) :) :)

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  • no, also the third option :( @ me next time lmfaoo

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  • Don't have an ex to feel sorry for.

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  • My two relationships ended on good terms. Both were good ones too.

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  • In some ways.

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  • No way, it's their loss

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What Guys Said 4

  • man she was a total bitch.

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  • Sometimes

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  • No, dating me is a privilege! 😉

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  • Hi, I'm wishywashy with no backbone and with generational lack of grit

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