I know I'm a handful and a half. How that woman ever put up with me is beyond my comprehension.
- Yes, I was a handful17%(4)24%(10)Vote35%(6)
- No, I was an excellent partner50%(12)44%(18)Vote35%(6)
- Mandatory pointless third option that everyone chooses like "Both" or some shit because wishywashy no backbone generational lack of grit33%(8)32%(13)Vote30%(5)
Most Helpful Girl
I have low self esteem and I thought I should not date or marry anyone. I thought I would make their life miserable and I was going to end up divorced. After being married for a while now. I realize that every relationship has problems. I know that I put up with his bs and he puts up with mine. But what matters most is that we both are learning to love better.0
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, I always want to give a girl more of me, but I was one of those guys that was always too busy. After school, work, gym, rehearsals, studying for tests like the MPRE, bar, etc. I would only have time for my girl late at night or on the weekends, when she's competing with my bros/family for time. I could see my ex-gfs' enthusiasm fade as the relationships went on, being attracted to the drive at first yet longing for togetherness as it continued. Such an observation kept braking my heart. Now I stay single, for women's sake. . . I just graduated though, so we'll see how things change.0