Many of those cases, all the victims screamed, resisted or said ''please, don't, etc.'' As horrible as it would be for any woman (or man) to be put under that ordeal, I think sometimes there might be way out.
If it was me under that situation, this might sound crazy but this would be my plan:
- Don't resist
- Pretend to like it
- Straight forward fake it
- Compliment the dude even if you really find him repulsive
- Try to be as calm as possible
Otherwise, unless I have a weapon at that moment or know a very good move, there are little chances of winning against that. I have a theory that some of those victims might have been alived today if they had done that.
Once let go, then I would seek revenge against him alright.
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There is no way you can just fake it until you make it. All he has to do if he is carrying a weapon or not is kill you right after he is done. That is what most rapist do. Always be AWARE of your surroundings, don't just TALK to anybody, and ladies you are guilty of talking to just some random 'cute' or 'HOT' guy, and then wonder how did he turn out to be a rapist, abuser or psychopath. I know and spoken to raped victims, so I can say this. If your the type that agrees to premarital sex, your at higher risk because your consenting to almost any and everybody. Rape happens in stable relationships too, that in turn is not so stable.
Learn self defense. Don't be afraid to ask critical questions. Don't believe in stereotypes. Anybody can be a rapist, and everybody is capable of doing a crime. Always have 9-1-1 on speed dial, and your most trusted family members and friends you can easily contact. Do NOT be home alone with a friend or family member that is showing sexual interest in YOU. Be CAREFUL who you call BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND. I have spoken to a girl who got raped by her boyfriend during first time sex, and she almost died. She was a virgin and she wanted sex, but he didn't, and once she told him to stop because she was in pain, he cursed at her and continued anyway. It is NOT a joke.
If you can legally get a gun, learn how to shoot by a licensed professional. Get your license, and know the law regarding concealed weapons. Get EDUCATED with the law overall. Know what is considered sex legally and medically! Sex includes the exchange in bodily fluids through penile- vaginal intercourse, oral sex: from mouth to genitals and anal sex. If this does happen, get to a safe place, call police IMMEDIATELY, then you can contact whoever you need to. Be prepared if you are sent to get counseling or therapy. And most of all, ALWAYS have a support system of your trusted friends and family. And always remember that the rape itself is not your fault. However if you have placed yourself in a vulnerable situation that you KNEW could have been avoided; learn from your mistakes and don't ever do it again. Forgive the offender, or they have already won. Don't engage into ANY form of sexual activity if you can no longer handle it. Don't allow somebody to chime you in or force you to do so, or say how you will be able to experience REAL SEX again. You set the boundaries and make the decision. Remember that.
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