So I'm very confused on what I should do. Tomorrow is the midnight release of the eighth book from one of my favorite book series on the planet. My best friend and I have been planning to go to the midnight release party since the announcement, down to our costumes. I've reminded my parents every day (exaggerated) about the release party, and they certainly have listened. But a few days ago my mother announced that my sister and I have to visit our grandparents over the weekend. Coincidentally, that happens to be on the same weekend as the release party. I told her that I couldn't go, and she said that it was fine. Except, my grandfather is getting surgery sometime next week, and my sister and I would visit him before. I'm worried that my grandparents will hate me if I go to the release party (that I have made clear I am going to for ages now!), or that my grandfather will die, and I'll be at Barnes and Noble.
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You're very young, but clearly a thinking person that you recognize your dilemma. Ultimately only you can make this choice, and only can balance the risks against each other. Make a list of positives and negatives for each choice along with the risks ad rewards. This will help you see the problems more rationally.1
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