Im turning 23 next month I'm getting old, and i just keep looking back and I keep getting terrified, like all I would do in my younger years is just stay at home, read and study!!😭😢i never went out to party or do drugs and drink and I never had a girlfriend!😭I'm still a flower (virgin!!) too!!!😭😭i don't even know what to do anymore I'm scared!!
Most Helpful Girl
DUUUUUUDE, you're turning 23. It's going to be okay. Things may seem confusing, but trust me, you are gonna be okay!
I'm 27, I've been 23, and trust me, it'll be aiight. You just need to relax. Don't be stressing.
If you find going out overwhelming, then don't go out. If you don't want to that is. If you do, find a group of friends to go out with. It's always better in a chill group. Find people who are cool to go out with. Not people who will cause drama and make your night out suck. Don't go out with people who get drunk and start fights, those people always get kicked out of the bars and then you have to go out to find them because you know they are just going to cause more problems.
Go out with a chill group of people. Find a good place to go that you feel comfortable at. A nice pub where the atmosphere is nice. Get some apps, get a few drinks and hang out. If you are a sports fan, go out and watch a game at a pub.
You'll eventually get a girlfriend. Trust me! And you won't be a virgin forever... trust me! :D
Don't be scared. Life is exciting and fun and beautiful! You're still young, enjoy the time you have on this earth :)1
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Most Helpful Guy
Nun to it homie. Its hard to just get the courage to walk up to a female an get her etc.. but if you can go for it. On tha real you winnin cause women can distract you. I've learned going through females that you have to give them your time and be committed to them. Its best to set your life and then go for a female cause you got the time. But if I dont meet a girl in person or sumn ill just find somebody on a social media like Facebook or sumn and just talk to her on there, get the number, get cool through phone, then y'all can face time or snapchat, to see each other, then when y'all comfortable enough meet each other go on from there. Its not the end of the world your still young bro. Dont put tha pussy on a pedestal you gunna get yo feelings hurt a few times just learn from it. She either gunna tell you yes or no. Just be yourself and treat her how you would wanna be treated1