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I definitely do that, but it's not that it's my duty I just enjoy cooking and having sex.
And it doesn't define our marriage.0
The second part is certainly true ;-). The first part seems awfully old-fashioned to me. I feel like as a guy in the year 2016, you should be able to feed yourself. And by "feeding yourself" I don't mean throwing a frozen pizza from 7/11 into the oven. I mean, actually cooking something nice for yourself (or ideally, for yourself and your girlfriend/wife). Of course it's nice to be served a yummy meal once in a while by your girlfriend/wife but it should not be a regular thing or at least it should be based on reciprocity. In my relationship, I do most of the cooking for both people. Or sometimes my girlfriend and me would cook next to each other but prepare our own, individual meals.
When I hear of men whose cooking skills are so poor they can't even make some pasta, I can only shake my head in disbelief. I find that pretty pathetic. Anyone over the age of 65 is excused but if you're 30 or 40 and you depend on your wife to get some decent food in your stomach, you're a loser (unless there are serious medical reasons such as a disability of course, that's an exception).
I guess, second part moreso haha. First ehh, it's nice but ehh.
lol thats kinda funny
How true is this statement "keep her stomach empty and her vagina full"?
Seems legit. 👍
To an extent
So feed them and have sex with them. But he can pay for those things so surely you need to be more.
It's a start, but believe it or not... Those two things won't keep him satisfied if the rest of your relationship isn't in order.
Focus on learning healthy communication, handling conflict respectfully, sticking to a budget (time and money), good health and keeping life interesting and it'll go farther than food and sex for both you and your relationships.
I mean it can't hurt...