Being a good person and a hard worker is hell in this world. Being a good person means that you have to stand up for your values and continue being a good person even when you physically can't or mentally can't. Otherwise your just a hypocrite and are like everyone else. So we over do to keep up our image. Which translates to more work physically and emotionally. If the boss asks you to help out after your already dead from a hard day at work you have to because you will lose favor because your the ONE he can count on. No boss needs the person he can trust early in the day.
Morally it is the same thing. You have to stand up for your values or your just another self righteous person. At the end of a extremely hard week little to no sleep. Someone will ask you about something they want help with morally/eithicually. Your brain is going no were to tired we will say something wrong or we don't have the energy to listen. However you can't just say we will talk about it another day cause they won't want to talk about it then. So you push yourself yet again.
For so many reasons for work lets face it if your a hard worker that is working at a place where you don't know the boss and see him regularly. Your doing your work and the work of your coworker's. Because unless you do his work the boss will yell at you because part of the work is not done. The boss does not know nor care that it is your coworker's work that is not done and he did not do it. Also again this goes back to being the One he counts on to do the Extra work on top of the work you did already. So we kill ourselves keeping up.
I'd go into trying to get a girl but I only have a few more characters left and that would take a lot. Lets just say people don't want what they think they want in a man. Online dating only makes this worse because people are looking for The One and if your not it well on to the next. As a guy I try and go over to women but usually I just get insulted for doing so.
So why are we good?
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There's nothing wrong with being an honest, hard-working, dependable person. The problem is letting people taking advantage of it without doing anything about it and then complaining.
At work, I do as much as my co-workers plus a little bit extra. This way, I'm not going crazy picking up everyone else's slack but I'm doing enough so that no one can single me out as a "bad" worker. There's no reason to do your job + half of a co-worker's job for the same pay and there's no harm in telling your boss exactly that.
I'm not sure what you mean by only having a "few characters left" in reference to talking to girls.
People are good, not because it's easy, but because they have a set of morals that they wish to abide by even if it requires conscious effort.0