I know it sounds like the weirdest thing, but it happened to me when I was younger (16-17). I was part of a forum online, a little like this site with questions and answers, and I actually had a huge crush on a couple of the male users just by the way they wrote and what their online persona was like. They didn't even have pictures or anything, and I'd like stalk their answers lol, and get excited when they'd write me comments. I still don't really understand why, or what exactly was so compelling about them.
I wonder if it was because I hadn't had much real world experiences with dating and relationships yet, and I was just more naive in general. Because now, even though I'm interested in what certain people have to say, I don't have crushes like that.
Anyway. Has this ever happened to you, or am I alone? 😅
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Most Helpful Guy
I think that's normal. If someone voices their opinions and they are just like yours, or they're saying things you've always felt but never put into words, it can't help but resonate with you. You will feel like you're on the same wavelength as them, that there's some kind of spirit connection. Of course most of it could be in your head.1
Most Helpful Girl
you probably enjoyed the way he spoke online, how he answered questions, etc. I've answered this question before but I had a major crush on a guy on here WAYYY long time ago, I stalked his answers like crazy myself, he spoke like a book and it turned me on. Too bad he's in a relationship now :-(1