Hey OK so basically I called the Muslims specifically because I'm religiously conflicted
The thing is I know I have to wait till I'm married but now I don't want to
I'm not sure if I even I want to get married
There are moments when I just feel like I want to lose the V card
I don't even go out on dates cause I know eventually it's going to lead there
And don't get me wrong; this is completely my choice, I honestly can't control what my body wants
So I just need advice to idk!! But like set me on the right path or something
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The reason they say wait til marriage is just to help protect you from things like sti's or a guy getting you pregnant and abandoning you etc...
Extremely controversial amongst Muslims, but there is also this temporary marriage. I think it's more accepted in some sects than others. It's just temporary and can last any period of time and some people do it as a way around sex before real marriage.
Honestly though, it is a sin in Islam, but at the same time Allah knows you're human with human desires and you WILL sometimes sin, all people do, it's just down to which sins you'll commit and how you are as a person, intentions etc..
Anyway, lots of Muslims do wait til marriage, but lots of Muslims don't wait til marriage too. I think more guys don't wait than girls though.
So, either two things- try to put it off and focus on your religion to take your mind off it, or just do it.
You know, you can probably also speak to somebody at your mosque about this for better advice. Let them only point you to what's written down, and not their opinion though.
Just be careful that you don't regret any decision you make- that either you later regret waiting and wish you'd just done it, or you regret losing it and feel bad or whatever.0