I was spanked growing up, it didn't happen often but when i was bad i got one. It was always my mom who did the spanking and it was always a bare bottom spanking. I say this because i'm sick of all the people who say spanking is abuse and that bare bottom spanking is somehow sexual abuse. I never felt abused in any way and i can tell you my mom didn't get "anything" out of spanking me bare bottom, it just hurt more that way without cloths as a buffer so if i did something that deserved a spanking it was always the worst spanking i could get (bare bottom)
Most Helpful Guy
This one time when I was really little. I was being bad for. . . ok probably since I was born but i was particularly bad recently and we went to church. I was old enough to sort of know the guy on the cross was god but that was all I knew. I didn't know how he got there or what it meant. So I asked my dad (kinda knowing what was coming)
"What did that guy do?" and he looked at me like he was about to kick my ass
"What do you mean 'what did he do' he's god"
"But what makes that guy special,-" before I could finish my sentence he dragged me out of the pew and started smacking me around super old-school. Hahaha I really didn't know anything about our religion yet.
If I were ever spanked bare bottom, first of all it was when I was very young and when I did something pretty bad.
I know some people hear a story like this and want to cringe but this is how I was raised and for the most part, I'm a very nice, extremely forgiving, emotionally strong person. Do I think that the way I was raised is how everyone should be or needs to be raised? No. But I can say, if I specifically were raised differently, I wouldn't have a lot of the good qualities I have.
I think there's two types of parents. The ones who hit their kids to get them to shut up, and the one who secretly feel like their heart breaks when they do it.1
Most Helpful Girl
Once in a blue moon, Dad would give us a Spanking on the Butt or Mom would use the Fly Swatter.
No big deal, I never called this Child Abuse because I Know my Parents always loved me.
However, if Someone on the street would see this Today, they would Contact Social Services and be on their Merry Way.
Good luck. xx1