I've mentioned this guy on here before but this is a new question. I'm just wondering if it's safe to send him "hey" or not when my last messages weren't responded to.
I was talking to a guy online for quite sometime. We get along well and he IS interested, but something always comes up when I want to meet. He isn't married and he's real bc we have mutual friends. I think he's shy/nervous. So one night we were talking, and I asked him to go out and he stopped responding to our convo. So I then sent another idea of what we could do, and nothing. An hour later I sent "don't worry about it" and then "but I really would like to know if you want to meet or not." No response... Then in a few days on fb he included be in an invite to a music event of his. I arrived late with my friend, and he was standing outside with a few others. They all saw me and kept looking, he has told them about me because they all kept looking at me... I stood there forever, then I walked up and past him, turned my head, and walked inside the building and I never said hey. I think I looked stuck up and like I wasn't interested in him in person. He's really short, like 5'2. Really thin. I don't care though... I should have said hey, but I didn't bc I was shy.
My friend called him on fb, left a weird message saying hello 3 times on accident. I sent him that it was on accident and he left early so I couldn't say hi, and I missed the opportunity. He didn't see it until hours later though but didn't respond.
Is it his turn to reach out? Would I look obsessive if I sent "hey" in a few days? I just feel bad for not approaching him when it was my place since I went there to see him, looked at him, then never looked his way til he left.
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