Long story short, there was this girl that I had a bit of drama with last year who I was initially friends with, but we ended up parting ways, not speaking to each other again.
We see each other at school, I act like I don't know her, and although I'd like to think she'd do the same, I do occasionally catch wind of her saying nasty shit about me to people.
But anyways, back to what has happened.
I was talking to a guy friend of mine, nicknamed 'Orphan' as you'll see on messenger. He was at a party, and from what he said, his phone was taken by this girl that dislikes me, and some of her friends. This girl's friend who I refer to as 'Loxton' then proceeded to send me these messages as shown in the images.
(also, when he says 'Chia seed rolls' he's referring to the school councillor by the nickname students have given her, who I see occasionally related to anxiety).
The strange thing is, I've never done anything to this girl, or her mate Loxton, and it's so out of the blue. My parents want to go to the school, however I'm unsure as to whether it's worth it with the retaliation etc. It did bother me a lot though.
What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
I feel like the best option here is to essentially put this person on your ignore-in-school list (aka "shit list") and ignore her. Reporting people may cause more drama as you'll get unjustly labeled as a tattletale or whatever, and she'll make sure to spin that into a story. I feel like she is wanting you to either get riled up or feel like crap, so ignoring her is the best option that will annoy her the most-- showing that you give no cares.
You know who you are, and whatever she thinks is as powerful as me saying that the sky is neon pink at all times. (Aka it's not)
Was she romantically involved with this dude at some point and is just over obsessive and controlling? It seems kind of bizarre for someone just to hate on you that much. I mean, the dude isn't spreading crap about you around to people, is he?
I would be aware that there is the potential for her/her friends to be spreading crap about you around school. Them directly confronting you to bully would be worst. Luckily, you seem to have dealt with the lies well, but it's just something to take note of. If you have a solid friend group though, you can stick/rely on them through this.
So I would ignore it now, put them on your shit list, but just be aware of them in school. Kind of like a keep your "friends close but enemies closer" situation, except more so a "keep your friends close and your enemies at a safe distance to kinda ignore them while still keeping them in check."
Now if they escalate this situation, I'd say that is when it's time to seek help-- when the problem becomes bigger than what you can manage alone.2
Most Helpful Girl
Ignore her, she is Bratty and Catty, @Luci92, and Very... Jealous.
This is Not the First, nor the Last of the, here, dear, who will Be Extending Claws and Paws and All, so either get Used to it or Be forever Trying to Fight with these Sorts of Sorted People.
Stay clear of her, for the More you Make of her, the More she will always Feel she Has the upper Hand Deal to Slam dunk you with your Good Name.
Good luck and No, Keep it to yourself, don't even Talk her Name, for Word always gets Back to a Bitch. xx1