So i hooked up ones with a guy on my vacation and at first i wasn't that obsessed and all that. But than after i saw him after the hookup, i don't know i just had a crush on him. So i tried to talk to him, but he basically wasn't interested anymore. I was and still am sad. He ignored me and was very distanced to me. Than after the vacation i basically did what a lot of people would do i stalked and tried to find him on social media. I had a few informations about him, as i talked to some friends to him on my vacation ( i didn't know while talking to his friends that they were his friends and they on the other hand didn't even know, that i knew him). And what did i found out? He all this time had a fucking girlfriend!!! That explains a lot why he suddenly ignored me, because the times after our hook up he was always with friends, who knew his girlfriend. And now my problem, i still hope to see him again somehow ( we are living in the same city, but still the city is not small) and i still like him even though i don't really know him and he cheated. But he really is my type. This is so dumb and i know it myself, but i can't stop and i am always like this, liking guys i will never have chance with. HELP HOW CAN I STOP OBSESSING OVER GUYS I WILL NEVER HAVE A CHANCE WITH?
- i can still hope for somethingVote A
- i just should stopVote B
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He has a girlfriend, he's not worth your trouble and also unavailable. I would concern yourself with someone else who actually likes you1