I always hear people say
"don't judge me by my actions" or
"my actions don't dictate who I am as a person"
I disagree completely..
If you do bad things that defines you as a bad person in my book..
Vice versa.. If you do good things that defines you as a good person..
But then there are people that aren't good or bad.. I haven't done anything bad worth mentioning in my lifetime. I stole a can of coke when I was 10, and I smoked the odd joint. But I also haven't done anything amazingly good.. Some of my friends have built schools in Africa with their own money.. Whereas I haven't really done anything great..
Most Helpful Girl
Their actions definitely do play a part in how I see others, no doubt.0
Most Helpful Guy
Actions and words show someone for what they are, actions speak of character quite well.
Strive, struggle, and torment show a person's true self though, you'll never see a person's true colors more clearly then when they're in a horrible situation, or under strive, struggle and stress.0