Lets face it, I have a lot of flaws. I'm
chubby (with an unattractive body type-apple)
weird, unfeminine voice
uncomfortable to be around
I look angry/upset/depressed
and I'm super weird
how do I fix these problems? And none of that,"you're beautiful the way you are," crap.
Most Helpful Guy
Change your lifestyle! Mindset and believe that you can. Don't let nothing else tell you different. Go out and change. Love yourself0
Most Helpful Girl
Wait honestly. No one is super attractive at 15, and your body is going to change A LOT as you grow up. At 24, I don't look the same way I did when I was 15, and you won't either.
If you think you're chubby, go work out or run or start exercising more. Weird hair? Experiment with different haircuts to find the most flattering for your face. You're honestly probably not as ugly as you think you are. No one cares about how someone's voice sounds, everyone is just who they are.
YOU think you're unlikable, and it sounds like you're causing your own problems. If you're overly sensitive and easily annoyed, people probably don't feel like you want to be friends with them or maybe you just aren't very welcoming to people. Try not to be that way. Don't take everything personally, don't get defensive when anyone says anything, don't get annoyed at the little things. Being shy and socially awkward is okay, a lot of people are and they figure it out eventually.1