I'm really shy & hate that about my self , how do I overcome being so shy?
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Hmmm. Pretty tough. First you must co trip your mindset. You can't be thinking negative or think a guy should do this or that. Don't sweat the small stuff. When you see a guy you like for example. Your emotions and everything will corrupt all common sense you thought you had. You may stuffer, curl up, or look away while talking. But your mind is doing most of the work. So control the way you think. And don't ask shitty questions to yourself. " if he don't care about me." What if I say the wrong things and he doesn't care." Your motives must be fucked up. Again those come from your head. So you try to think. " what should I say that isn't going to land me in short convos.
Next, communications and journey. Yes. It's vital. You have to know what to say if you wish become less shy. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how is key. If a guy says hey and your heart pounds and your breathing picks up and you can't make eye contact. You do the opposite of what your mind telling you to do. Look back at him, smile and say hi back. You'll realize how easy it is after the first 20 people you meet.
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