I am studying music in university. About one month ago, my violin instructor started asking whether I would be free on tomorrow night and to have dinner with him. I promised to have dinner with hm tomorrow as he asked again last week. But I’ve just figured out that tomorrow will be his birthday.
Should I still go for the dinner and what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
This sounds very unprofessional of him. He is looking for sex. Only go out with him if you also want sex.0
Most Helpful Girl
Girl, let me tell you something about getting involved with your college instructor. DON'T DO IT. SERIOUSLY.
I was complicatedly involved with my former instructor/best friend until recently - it was complicated simply because he used to be my instructor and he still teaches at my college. What makes it worse is that ALL of my friends has/had him as an instructor as well. It all ended with him completely betraying me - he may have been using me for all I know - and me in tears.
There are plenty of STUDENTS you can date, which will be much better for you, TRUST ME. Student-teacher relationships are nothing like what they seem in movies.
DON'T DO IT.0