I don't have a problem with them as people, but if i'm with a girl and i find out that she was once a man then i'm going to be mad. Can't lie. People can say that sex doesn't define gender all they want but i want but i don't agree with that at all.
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Most Helpful Girl
Im fine with them, but I wouldn't consider them either a guy or a girl, they're simply "trans gendered" (but I will of course always call them by the gender term they prefer), a male-to-female trans is not going to be female in my eyes because thats just biology, they are going to remain as "trans" even if they get gender reassignment surgery, because biology and science has shown that trans people have a brain thats a tad different from their own gender and the opposite gender.
I can agree though with you that I would certainly want to know if my partner used to be a girl before dating me. Honesty is vital in any relationship I get into.4
Most Helpful Guy
My biggest problem is that it's turning into a fad like having a gay son was when it started to be socially acceptable.
"look how open minded I am".
Having anyone under 18 claim to be transgender, without an honest medical review, worries me massively. I've seen people do interviews with those as young as 5 claiming to be born the wrong gender. Who thinks about gender when they are 5? The difference kicks in at puberty.4