Why am I like this I don't have a mental illness or anything but I have trouble doing speaking about things. like I can scram bull shit all day long but when I need to say something or talk about something important the words don't come out. I can't talk about my feelings or what is going on with me what I think would be best for me to do it is or I can't say when I need help the idea is physically pain full. hell I can't even go order lunch with out my voice being quite and fidgeting. i know I'm like this because my mom raised me to be co-dependent on her. but I want to think for myself and say what I want but I can't do it why?
Can someone Help me please?
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You have trouble speaking for yourself because your mom raised you to be dependent on her. In other words, your knowledge of the best ways to speak for yourself versus expecting your mom to take care of things for your was a bit stunted in development. Not that you can't work on improving now...
It won't be easy. You'll have to 'face your fears' of public-speaking, kind of, to ensure that your needs and preferences are not overlooked.0
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