I message dozens of women each week on online dating sites and almost never get responses. Even the lowest of the low, the least attractive women I can find on the entire site, do not want anything to do with me. I just feel like deleting these accounts because of how futile it has become.
Its so crushing knowing that women don't even want to have basic interactions with me, let alone anything else. When by chance I meet a woman in real life I can see the revulsion bordering on hatred in their eyes, I can see how uncomfortable my presence makes them, I can see their shut off body language which is screaming to leave them alone. This is before I've even spoke to them. I'm a creep just by existing.
It's even making living my day to day life incredibly difficult. I feel so anxious even going into a shop or fast food restaurant because of the high probability that I'll have to interact with a woman and see her react in disgust to me. I hate these constant reminders of how unlikable I am.
I feel like a monster. I don't want to be me anymore.
Most Helpful Girl
You aren't 0/10. You're like, average. Lose the chub, and work on hygiene, cuz it looks like you've got acne scars. Keep trimmed. Smile , get better fashion cuz you look... average. Like every guy.
Confidence is your biggest problem. Go talk to girls irl. Don't do online dating, cuz that's purely visual and you need to practice looking good first. Approach women outside, at like a store or something. You'll have more success, cuz even if you aren't a super model, girls like confident guys and you give yourself the best shot that way.
Good luck :)0
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Most Helpful Guy
work on yourself, start hitting the gym, list down your good qualities and be the best in trying to remove the negative ones
then change your look
try to laugh a little bit more, try hang around with people who value you
and yeah, if you can't find a decent woman when you're gonna hit your 30s, do like me - pay for hookers. no dramas no regrets1