What is the difference between a guy picking on you and a guy being rude to you?

As in he picks on you=he likes you.

He's rude to you=he's an asshole

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2mo Just curioous

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Most Helpful Guy

  • The difference is one has self esteem problems and the other is just a douche. Actually that's one in the same. If anyone is like that they are just all around assholes and I say fuck em lol.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • If its obvious that it hurts your feelings he's being an asshole. If he's just poking fun and he knows your ok with it then he's being friendly.

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What Guys Said 2

  • i was a bully in school mostly picked on this one kid who was fat feel horrible now but shit happens what i can say is that there's no fucking difference if someone is picking on someone that they have a crush on they r fucking mentally handicapped or some shit because that just dumb

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  • The guy that picks on you because he likes you, will also do and say nice things for/to you sometimes too.
    The guy that is just being an ass won't do anything nice for you or ask how your day was.

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    • 2mo

      I think this guy was picking on me because I ignored him and he wanted to hurt me too.

      Not sure if he'd do nice things for me or ask how my day was. I know that he wouldn't look me in the eye which means he's probably awkward around me too

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      Ask him to do something for you. Something that doesn't take much time and then you would know.

What Girls Said 7

  • Your patience for assholes.

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  • There isn't a difference. Steer clear of him.

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  • If he's picking on you, he'll most likely look at you for a reaction to what he says/does, if he's being rude, he won't look for your reaction

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    • 2mo

      the ones who pick on me do it purposely. Like if I'm not reacting they'll find new ways to irritate me.

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      That's because they want to see how you react to different things.

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      So they like me or something?

  • If your feelings are hurt he's being mean. Men know how to tease without hurting your feelings.

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    • 2mo

      My feelings were hurt.

      I thought he wasn't respecting e

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      Yeah. Then he's being mean.

  • The tone.
    You'll just have to read the atmosphere.

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  • Yeah never could tell the difference...

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  • Fuk if I know lol

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