My dad is a stockbroker and he used to sleep with a sixteen year old student of his not long time ago. I saw them kissing in their car, that's all the evidence i got, so i know he was doing it but i haven't told anyone about it, not even my dad. He is 44, my mom is 47. Is it bad if i keep it a secret?
My dad has cheated with a teenager, should I tell?
What Girls Said 8
I think the best thing for you to do is to get a day out with your mother alone and just tell her that you want to spend the day with her. When you do, you need to tell her honestly what you saw. Make sure that your absolutely certain that this is the truth. Tell her you have no other evidence except you did see him with a minor, one of his students making out.
Then you have to ask her despite what she have been told, what is she going to do about it. That kind of secret should be handled carefully with care. You can't go to the police about it, because both your father and the 16 year old will deny that it happened. Your father is bound to deny it anyway. That is left up to your mother now. And that is if she believes it or even WANT to believe it. Because you need to remember that she has been with your father for a long time. You have no idea what is her mindset like and if she is weak willed, forget it. And you never know. She might even knew about the cheating.1
I'm not quite sure what your dad's profession has to do with any of this?
You can talk to your dad about it? If you really want to keep it a secret do, but it'll stay on your mind1
Ahhh that's bad... a 16 year old with a 44 year old? What were they thinking? As much as telling can hurt people honesty is always the safer route... it clears the air, people can move on and you won;t be blamed for keeping silent in the future.1
tell your mom about it0
Tell your mom.1
Maybe get your dads side of the story but from what I've read your mother definitely needs to know, even if it hurts.3
What Guys Said 14
Brah. First. Have a drink with your dad. Pour the old man a shot and take one yourself. Ask him to give you a few stories. Learn something from his persuasive skills. Remember them! He must be a man and a half to be boning 16 year old girls.
Now if you value your mom's feelings. You'd then go meet a bud. Drink a few beers and cherish the moments you've had as a 'family'. Proceed to tell your mom because after this, things may never be the same again
BUT it's not fair to your mom. So you have an obligation here BUT first see what your dad has to say about all this, over a few drinks of course0
It was cheating, i think you should tell.2
I don't know... i wouldn't get involved. I'd tell your dad first and see what his excuse is. Hopefully this is enough for him to come clean fearing you'll tell her.
Be prepared for the fall out though.1
No, keep it to yourself.1
Let the old man have some fun with fresh juicy pussy, for fuck's sake.0
Talk to that teenager first however0
No. It's not of your business.0
When are secrets good?0
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