This girl I know at work has a crush on me. She acks nervous and awkward sometimes. Once when we were alone I told her "your a sweet beautiful girl, you sould have all the confidence in the world, you don't need to be shy. Then out of appreciation she huged me and kissed me on the lips, then she rubbed her forehead against mine and said "thank you, I really like you, i'd like to date you" I forgot she was a minor for a second.
Could I get in a lot of trouble for this?
Honestly I am attracted to this girl and would date her when she is legal but i'm scared that I may go to jail if anyone found out about her kissing me. I'm worried if people saw us together they would call the police. I'm worried people with think i'm a bad person trying to use her.
Most Helpful Girl
No lmao it's okay
You're just being paranoid1
Most Helpful Guy
The kiss is fine, but don't do it too often. Avoid sex, just out of principle. See if she's someone worth marrying first. Also, limit alone time with her to keep from being tempted - and to always have an alibi or character witness handy in case anyone wants to speculate that the two of you are sleeping together. This way, it'll be harder for anyone to accuse.
Once she's 18, however, the two of you can kiss wherever. Just be respectful of whatever else is going on. Be very mindful of her parents especially, and make it your goal to win them over and make them your allies.
If her parents become your allies, then accusers will have hell to pay for badmouthing the two of you. Though... do limit romantic interaction in the workplace, as that can create problems for other reasons If the two of you get married, she may want to consider being in a different department or leaving work altogether. That way, you aren't brining home the same drama of the same workplace.
Because my one uncle found out the hard way when his wife tried to work in the same office as him that it's not healthy to be taking work disputes home if you work at the same office. It means there's no escape from the workplace drama..2