I know its stupid, but i realised its only 4 month untill my birthday and im still a virgin and still haven't had a boyfriend yet.
I never imagined myself being this "old" and never had sex. I have had several chances of losing it, been on dates with several guys, but since non of the guys was my boyfriend i didn't sleep with them.
at the age of 19 i was thinking that i would get laid by the age of 20. Age of 20 i was thinking i "should" happen before the age of 22.
For me sex and a relationship goes hand in hand, so when i write sex i mean sex within a relationship. im nornally not bothered, because i know at some point i'll meet the right guy, but i can barely date so it seems like i have to wait a couple of years. I feel sad because close to everyone around me dates, have relationship and have sex, and im kinda left out in away.
Im not waiting untill marriage or the "perfect guy", i just want it to be a sweet guy who cares about me and whom im dating.
It just feels odd to be my age, going on 22 and not have had sex. Mostly because i get attention, i get approached and i dont think im ugly nor a horrible person.
Its an completely unrational "fear" or feeling, but i kinda feel like a loser almost. Any advice on how to not give a flying fuck?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah "sex and a relationship goes hand in hand" not necessarily... you don't need to wait for the "right guy" to have sex... you need to open your mind. you don't need to date someone to have sex ok hun?0
Most Helpful Girl
hey it's ok to feel that way, I used to but I got tired of waiting at 17 😀
you don't have to answer me just ask yourself if you're idealising too much this guy you've never met, you may not be as open as you think to opportunities
chose a guy you find interesting and focus on him, I realized some people are really different once you get to know them and who knows.. you may find The Guy lol good luck 👍0