I am introverted. This is seriously compromising my ability to get laid.
Even if I can manage to muster a conversation, it quickly gets awkward.
Can a person become an extrovert? What are the keys to doing this?
At bars, other people are singing and dancing, I'm sitting by myself.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm an introvert too. it became easier for me as I got older. but I'm still pretty shy. I tell guys I'm shy and they seem to think it's cute. my boyfriends sister thinks I'm adorable bc I'm timid. but, I take anxiety meds. it helps. I don't have depression at all, but I do have anxiety. the more I learned to be myself the easier it came to not be so introverted. I just adapted this mindset like "be who you are and say what you feel because those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter".0
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Most Helpful Guy
You have to take a risk by being out there more often. Approach others and become involved. If you say or do something stupid, leave and go approach others. Keep doing this and eventually you won't feel afraid of having the attention of others. You will develop confidence which will be seen naturally by others. Eventually something might happen. It can be a relationship, one-night stand, whatever. I'm 26 and never kissed or dated, but I'm sure what caused me to be in this position is different from yours. Give it a try. Good luck.0