The only reason I want to stay single is mostly because I'm afraid of rejection.
my grandparents and single aunt try to egg me on to go to clubs and meet new people.
even though I told them the people that are at the clubs is to dance and meet other women.
which is not a bad thing, but the reason why I would go to clubs is the fact that I'm afraid of being rejected, since back in highschool I was rejected by almost every young lady.
I got this idea that all women will just reject me.
now I will be honest with you I can make conversation with a ugly or decent women, but a hot or cute women I get socially awkward.
sorry for going off subject, but on
a serious note is it wrong that i want to stay single, since some of the hot or cute ones are gold diggers or prostitutes, and then you have the ones that date older men, and then you have the ones who go for a specific race, and then you have the snobs or stuck ups.
i mean It's like a game to find a women that have the same interest as you.
Is it wrong that I want to stay single for along time or do I need to find some help.
Most Helpful Girl
That's a dumb reason to be single! We're all afraid but you shouldn't let emotions prevent you from what you want. Like if you want a college degree you have to go to college but if you're afraid of failing you'll never go to class or get your degree.
I mean if you need to work on confidence or not caring about rejection do that before you go into dating. Just don't ever date because of fear ya know1
Most Helpful Guy
Women don't get it because they never face rejection like men do... it is proven men reject women with more ease and respect... when women act like cunts when rejecting a man...
with this said, I advice you to meet women and treat then like anybody else... maybe those women are evil but so are some of those men you speak with! meet girls and have sex with them.. go out and have some fun... just never commit to a woman if you are afraid of being used...1
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