I am 13 and was in a house fire 2 months ago. how do I get used to my burn scars? I feel like no guy will like me.
Most Helpful Guy
Use coco butter on your skin it will fade the scars i5.walmartimages.com/.../...786c1660f2ab7ccc0.jpeg0
Most Helpful Girl
Right now you need to stop focusing on getting a guy or if a guy will like you. You just got out of a fire incident. Thank God you made it out alive. That is what you should be concerned about most. 2ndly, you have to understand that the fire was not your fault. A person who loves you will accept the fact that you have them and they are now part of you and your life. It could have been a lot worse. I know your young and most of you girls start thinking about boyfriends and everything. But a guy is not supposed to be your everything. You have to learn to love yourself before you can share that with somebody else.
I have scars to. All different parts of my body. The worse one is on my breast from surgery. It was one of my greatest fears after I discovered I had a tumor in my breast at your age. I was 13 too when I had to get surgery. But it was either I get it done, or keep till this age of 24 and it would have turned cancerous. What was worse? A scar? An visibly uneven breast? Which by the way, I have both. Or for it to turn cancerous, god forbid go through chemo, end up with one breast, or end up dead? I had no choice. While a fire is worse than mine, you still can heal from this.
You have to care flu yourself and understand your value and importance. Because if you place your value on appearance just for a guy to like you, then your value is based off of superficial beauty. That will not last long as you get older. As I said, your 13 years old. At that age, guys was the least of my worries. A guy who will appreciate you will bypass your scars. And look at your heart. You may feel insecure now, but then those scars will become like a blessing. Because it will remind you how far you came and how you overcame tragedy at its worse. It will show you who loves you for you and who's only with you for show.0