When a guy say's he's giving up on women, what do girls mean when they say he needs to change or improve on things. Like what would he need to do?

When a guy say's he's giving up on women, what do girls mean when they say he needs to change or improve on things. Like what would he need to do?

This question is to help guy's out who are feeling down on themselves and need advice on what they can do to improve. Because a lot of guy's give up too easily instead of trying.
And please no need to be hostile or causing conflict here. This is to help fellow guy's out thank you. 🙏


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Most Helpful Girl

  • If you totally lack success with women - literally, all women, you have to stop and wonder if you aren't the problem. There is no truth to the idea that all women on the planet will just - for no reason other than feminine evilness - not give a supposedly unflawed guy a chance. If you're not having any luck, it's likely due to your approach, and how you behave.

    As humans we all have to grow, a part of growing is improving. What you need to improve will be totally dependent on your situation, and no, I don't buy into this "you never have to change" bull, because we all change, we all get better as time goes on because we grow as people.

    So, what do you need to change?

    Your attitude: Don't go into it feeling shitty about yourself, or acting like women are superior nor ill intended. Be confident in who you are, and let your good qualities shine.

    Your ability to read social cues: This is where a lot of socially awkward guys falter, they don't know how to respect boundaries because they can never find them. It helps to ask female friends or relatives about this one.

    Taking rejection as a learning experience, not a failure: Harness rejection into something positive, and you'll literally be able to pick out and fix your dating weaknesses and improve where you can.

    Now, none of this suggests you have to stop being who you are at the core of your being, but don't let this "don't ever change" concept stop you from growing.

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What Girls Said 1

  • I guess it means that you have to work on yourself. If all your relationships are not working out then maybe there's more to it than that person.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Just do you, who cares what they think, you shouldn't have to change for anyone.

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    • 1mo

      Good advice man hopefully the bitter dudes can learn from your advice. Awesome man!

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