Why do we pay so much attention to looks isn't it the personality and heart that matters?
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I think the more interesting question is why we think that there is something wrong with valuing looks? Why should looks be valued any less than personality or intelligence? I think everyone cares about looks. But it's as if we feel guilty about the fact that we find looks so important. By why? Some people feel so guilty about valuing looks that they go through all kinds of contortions to try to convince themselves it isn't important.
I suppose part of the reason that many people would prefer to minimize the value of looks is that many people don't look that great. So it's natural to try to devalue something you don't possess yourself. But really it's just self deception because in reality I think all people place a high value on looks. It's only natural.
I think we should celebrate looks. It's one of the most important things to pretty much all people whether they can admit it to themselves or not.2