I used to be a very innocent girl, but I have had sec and drank and done things that I regret and I won't to go back. I want to stop doing those things. I deifntiley don't want to have sex anymore. I know I can't be what I was before but I do want to be a better girl. Is this possible?
Most Helpful Guy
Just learn from your mistakes and move on, don't look back at the past1
Most Helpful Girl
I dont really know how to answer this question. So ill just ask you: do you not like yourself? do you think less of yourself because you have had sex and drink alcohol?
Personally, I dont think having sex and drinking makes you bad. I've done both. Now if you have had sex with 100s of guys and drink till your kidneys are dead, than we would be having a different conversation.
You can change the past but you can learn from your mistakes and better yourself for the future. So if you dont want to drink or have sex, dont! thats your choice. Just know that just because you have done it or do it, dosnet make you a bad person.1