i am proud of myself for loving myself enough to grow a backbone when it comes to guys in my life
when my ex ignored me for 2 days, messaged me around 11pm and said "hellooo" i simply replied "goodnight =)"
The old me would of talked to him, completely allowed him to take me for granted.
however in response he simply found it offensive that i was leaving as he said hello. i contained myself and simply said "if you want to talk to me, you can talk to me earlier, sweet dreams" i was expecting the worst, however it was well received.
Another guy who kept trying to charm me, telling me sweet nothings/dirty things when i hardly knew him. i simply said to him, i am not going to fall for that if you want my attention you can talk to me like i am a human being, until then take care"
I was never like that, too soft at heart to deny anyone anything.
what is it that you are proud of this year?
Most Helpful Guy
First off, way to go for you! Nothing better than standing up for yourself. For me it was going Skydiving. Even though it's by far the most fun I've ever had in 5 minutes and was an eye opening experience that completely changed my outlook on life, that wasn't what made it such an achievement. It was the fact that it was a dream or "bucket list" thing I've wanted to do for years and never really did it until now. It taught me that my dreams will only remain dreams if I let them stay that way. So long as I don't forget to do the things I want to do in this world there will come a point and time where I'll have the opportunity to do them, but I must never forget them.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Going from being Negative and somewhat depressed (2015 was a very bad year for me) to being much more positive and happy.
Being courageous enough to change my major because it made me miserable although I'm still 21 and in the first year of UNI, at least now i like what I'm doing.
And another thing but it's a secret haha2