Most of my crushes in University were white. I'm Indian.
Now... I don't know. I do think they're attractive but something is off.
I can't put my finger on it.
What I meant was... I felt unattracted to my own race in University. But after University suddenly brown guys are attractive too.
White guys are still attractive but the connection I used to feel as though when I walk into a room tehy're the only guys I notice (as in I don't notice the brown ones) is not as strong.
Most Helpful Guy
That isn't true at all.0
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn't work that way. As we age it depends on the person. Our personality and character says a lot when it comes down to maturity level. It doesn't always change for some people. But what your talking about is mainly lust. When people are younger, lust is all the rage and you just want that person for your own personal reasons sexually. Then as you age up, it just depends on your views and how much you've learned. Sadly most people still party hardy and do a lot of casual sex even passed their 40's and 50's if single or cheating when their married. So a lot can go on within a persons life. Your perspectives on life, and how the guys you were attracted to changed based on your new outlook from when you were in Uni, and then after they finished Uni.0