Why are young women more likely to perform oral sex than guys are?

Research of teenagers' attitudes to oral sex show that women are less likely to receive and much more likely to give. Women are more likely to perform oral sex than men, even if they aren't comfortable with it. The giving of oral sex between genders is unbalanced and men are more likely to refuse to perform oral sex on women. 16 - 18-year-olds said that it was a "bigger deal" for men to perform oral sex on women than the other way around. Women were more ambivalent than men to receive oral sex because they were aware that female genitals are negatively perceived. In addition, participants said it was “easier” for men to receive oral sex than women.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Cause it's easier to control/manipulate girls at that age. The vast majority just wants the attention and to feel important, so if they guy tells her to give her a bj, she won't refuse cause she fears he would abandon her if she says no, and/or she has him on a pedestal.
    Guys tend to ask for a bj, girls don't tend to ask for oral. The guy is the dominant, the girl is the submissive, that's how both genders prefer it, so the sub tends to do what the dom says.

    This doesn't apply to every situation, but to most.

    • That seems like a good answer

  • I suspect because
    -guys like it
    -that way they don't have to give up the pussy the (V-card...)
    -they don't risk pregnancy
    -they heard WRONGLY that they wouldn't get stds from it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • As you know, a penis and a vagina are very different... a vagina is more difficult to keep clean and perfumed than a penis... especially if you are outside, I mean not at home, so sometime we girls don't feel comfortable to let a man to eat us everytime...

    • thats why you keep wipes on you all the time lol esp after using the restroom. keeps it fresh so you are always ready.

    • @Cool4ever5 To be honest, male genitals are cleaner than us females genitals. When we girls pee that we are peeing on our genitals as males do not do that - that why males do not give oral as easy as girls give males oral. Doing random oral is not safe to do. The only time a girl should give oral sex to a male is if she knows him well, and he knows her. It very important to be healthy and have no illness. When a male and female get together to do oral that it is essential you both must wash your genitals in front of each other, so each person knows you are clean. Once again, giving random oral on a male or female is not safe. When you give oral to either gender, it based on a relationship where you both know each other. Let me put it another way: we do not get personal with straighteners. Preteen and teenagers need to understand they do not do oral for random people for any reason. During my preteen and teenage years, when I did oral on a male, it was boys who I knew. I had two boys who I knew from the first grade. I was apart of a small group who took care of each other when we needed a release when our hormones are driving us up the wall.

    • @2237360 preteens are not to have any type of sexual action, especially not oral sex!!

  • Men aren't expected to by newbies lmao

    Most guys don't go above and beyond... unless the girl is upset or it's the guy's personality. 🙄 lol shameful boys

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  • a guy will ask you to give him a blowjob at anytime... often I feel responsible to give him one especially if i'm in a short dress or miniskirt... never really mind giving one... I see it as making out but going a little further maybe ramifications for making out... you have a guy with a tremendous hard-on so what do you do? At the end of the day I like giving a blowjob so I do it... even if it means the favor isn't returned and believe it or not that's majority of the time.

  • I dont think its that simple, everyone is into different things there is not normal or right or wrong, its just whatever that person seems to be into.

  • I dont know nothing about that. I love eating girls out.

  • probably. Chicks are more freaky then men.

    • Depending on the chick, some can really really get into it !

  • Guy want something with action or sort of adrenaline submission so cunny is not that attractive. But if the girl can persuade him to let her facesit him and she moves very aggressively and hot he will turn addicted to it. 🤣

  • Cus we lov it

  • Disagree with the premise

  • Because they are horney and needy at that age and afraid to be alone and that's pathetic
    I never liked women at that age even when i was at that age i always had feelings for women in their 30s and above

  • because they like big hard cocks in their mouths. hey girls small cocks have their grace as well, you can deepthroat them completely you know!

  • If girls had dicks, I would have been less apprehensive about doing at the time. Some of them do now. Maybe that's why I like them.
    It's a moist, dark hole that carries all sorts of things in it. Not all are quite as clean as they say.