Research of teenagers' attitudes to oral sex show that women are less likely to receive and much more likely to give. Women are more likely to perform oral sex than men, even if they aren't comfortable with it. The giving of oral sex between genders is unbalanced and men are more likely to refuse to perform oral sex on women. 16 - 18-year-olds said that it was a "bigger deal" for men to perform oral sex on women than the other way around. Women were more ambivalent than men to receive oral sex because they were aware that female genitals are negatively perceived. In addition, participants said it was “easier” for men to receive oral sex than women.
Most Helpful Girl
Men aren't expected to by newbies lmao
Most guys don't go above and beyond... unless the girl is upset or it's the guy's personality. 🙄 lol shameful boys0
Most Helpful Guy
Cause it's easier to control/manipulate girls at that age. The vast majority just wants the attention and to feel important, so if they guy tells her to give her a bj, she won't refuse cause she fears he would abandon her if she says no, and/or she has him on a pedestal.
Guys tend to ask for a bj, girls don't tend to ask for oral. The guy is the dominant, the girl is the submissive, that's how both genders prefer it, so the sub tends to do what the dom says.
This doesn't apply to every situation, but to most.1